Friday, March 09, 2012

Boys, are you gentleman enough?

Hi people, sorry it's been so long I didn't update my blog..huhu

For this entry I will focus on guys... Boys out there, this is a question for you, have you ever like someone and want to ask that girl out on a date? I'm sure most of you did that. Or even if a guy friend invite his girl friend ( not couple ) to have lunch.. This is a matter of are you gentleman enough or not?

I did not ask 'are you a gentleman?' but rather I ask 'are you gentleman enough?' because i'm pretty sure every guy that God has made are gentleman. The question is, is it enough?

There are 2 different situation but almost the same to show are you gentleman enough..

Situation 1
Once upon a time, there's a guy that likes a girl, he said to himself : 'I think I like this girl, but how do I tell her that?' So he plan on asking her out to a first date.. You guys went for a movie, play games at the arcade, watch beautiful scenery and all sorts of stuff people do on a date...and eventually it comes to the climax of the story before the date ends - the DINNER.. Now tell me guys, if you ask a girl out to a first date, would you 

A. Pay for the food
B. Let her pay for the food
C. Pay together

Which one is it?
For each and every answer above has its own definition guys. 
(A) means you guys are a noble person because this one shows that you guys are a real gentleman.
(B) You guys failed the first principle of being a man, i'm sorry to say that..
(C) I think you guys are not serious to have a relationship with this person you like, it might be false alarm, you may think you like her but the real fact is you don't, it's just a friendly feeling (this always happen to those who are close friends and 'think' that feelings start to develop to each other..

Guys show that they are really serious about you when they pay for the food, it's a sign that says ' you can depend on me if we are together'.
Guys who let the girls pay..I don't know how you guys can live in this world without feeling shame of yourself.. Where's your balls dude? You ask a girl out but she has to pay for the food? Be real man.. Guys like this, better extinct..
Guys who pay together 50-50 with the girls, they are not entirely wrong but if they do that means they know they like the girl but do they really know what their heart and mind tells? As I say it might be a false alarm because feelings do develop among close friends, just that it might be real feelings or just a friendly feelings due to the feeling of being super comfortable with each other..

I tell you guys, girls are not materialistic or a gold digger but they have their own principle and ego too although girl's ego are not as high of a guy's ego.. Girls never fall for the (B) type I can guarantee you.. unless if she's the one that is crazy for this guy and when this guy ask her out is a jackpot for her =.=

Situation 2
Notice how girls always have handbag with them when they go out? Guys, here's a fact for you to know. Girls are quite perfectionist in many way, handbag makes them feel secure and complete. I'm not saying complete as in it makes girls feel pretty and confident, well yeah that too, but what i'm saying is boys have you look into your girlfriend's handbag?
Girls have almost everything they need in their handbag, tissue, wet tissue, sanitizer, makeup, handphones, earphones, sunglasses, camera, sweater, everything they need when they go out of the house.. You can't blame your girlfriend if she brought a large handbag with her when she's out with you.. This is girls whether you guys can accept the fact or not..

You don't expect them to hold all these stuff just by using their hands don't you..

Guys, not all guys, have this habit of asking his girlfiend or his girl-friend that has large handbag to hold their stuff for them inside her bag while you guys go out together.. This is never a happy moment for us (girls) when we go out.. Our handbag are heavy enough with our own stuff and you guys can still heartlessly ask us to carry your stuff for you inside our bag? wow, how small is your pride dude? You guys might say 'they have handbag, we don't, is it wrong to ask for help?? it's not like we didn't ask politely'. Girls don't show their anger or dislike towards this situation because girls are God's creature with the most emotion, they consider other's feeling. Please you guys, try and be considerate towards us too..Unless sometimes girls do willingly to help out.
BUT! Bottom line is..
Never EVER do that because you guys don't deserve to be call gentlemen AT ALL if you guys do that! We are not your maid, we are not paid to carry your load. Bear in mind, women are special guys, you men don't carry foetus inside your tummy for 9 months like we do, so show some respect here..

That's all for now..

Till the next post..

With Love,

Casey =)


  1. perghh. look who's back in the business. haha.
    nice one though. from sifu ^^,

  2. haha.. good post there fi!!

    jie jie jess xo

  3. haha thank you pepz.. Im back in business bebeh!..haha
    Thanks bro :) (bro fist dlu~haha)
    Thanks sis :)
    Thanks ayon :)